Tech Entrepeneur- 32 years.

Before I started this work, my anxiety was very high and I was constantly alert. Now, I feel relaxed most of the time. That alone has changed my whole experience of life.

What made the difference?

II started checking in with myself. Not just in my head, but in my body. And I learned to speak from that place — not from performance or politeness, but from truth. That shifted everything, especially in how I connect with women. The RBDSM conversation gave me language. Talking things through helped.

IIn a session with Kyara, I practiced expressing what I feel without filtering. With Kim, I explored attachment styles — and her physical example of the anxious type made something land in my system. Suddenly I could feel the pattern.

My sexuality became freer.

II trust my gut more. I notice how people respond to me differently now — like my words land, my presence is felt. I started to sense the difference between attraction and attachment: It made me able to feel the energy people send out, instead of getting caught up in loops.

There used to be so much shame and guilth from my family system and religion.

During the trajectory something shifted. I started to feel my own playfulness and aliveness.

At a sex-positive temple event, I saw others being fully in their erotic expression — and instead of feeling small, I felt: this is in me too.

Working with Kim and Kyara was like behavioral therapy for my soul. A life simulator. I got to test in real time what does and doesn’t work in connection.

II knew something wasn’t working in me, but I couldn’t see what. Unpacking it layer by layer helped me finally understand. I received direct feedback, reflections on my words and actions, and that helped me come back to myself.

One moment I’ll never forget:

Kim said, “What you just said comes across as creepy.”

And I was shocked. Because I would never have known that on my own.

No one had ever given me such honest feedback before. And I needed that. A real woman’s perspective on how I show up.

II don’t need to seek support or approval at my family anymore.

II have a completely different belief system now. I broke free.

And in that process… my slutty soul got released.

It became crystal clear what belonged to my old system.

And when I broke out of it, my ex left my life. That was such a relief.

Now, when I speak my truth and the other person stays, I know — this is a green flag.

It helps me not overthink it.

II used to fear romantic attraction. I thought it would ruin me. That I would lose my mind, like before.

But now, I feel at ease in love.

II listen to how my body feels and have my boundaries in place.

II speak my truth. I commit to that.

II no longer hold it back for safety, or for someone else’s comfort.

And I no longer let shame or pleasing take the lead.